Some
years ago, a tiny Korean orphan arrived in
the United States to join her adoptive
family. She was nine months old and weighed
only 9 pounds. She grew and blossomed in her
new home, but remained a diminutive size.
Her new name was Edie.
One day
when Edie was in second grade, she ran home
from school, crying. She was frightened.
That day, three new girls had been enrolled
in her class.
During
the first recess, they picked the smallest
girl in the class as the object of their
anger and frustration. They pinched, poked,
and pushed tiny Edie and threatened to beat
her up.
Edie had
spent an hour in the principal's office with
the three girls and was assured the teachers
would be watching. The girls were given a
warning.
Edie's
mother held her little one and comforted
her. She learned later, after speaking with
the principal, that the girls had been
troublemakers at several other schools. They
were being given one more chance at anew
beginning.
"These
girls must have been very hurt in their
young lives to be so angry. Her mother said.
"The Bible tells us, "Be kind to your
enemies, and pray for those who persecute
you. Edie, let's pray."
Then they
prayed for the girls and asked the Lord for
a plan of action.
A plan began to take shape. "I can't go to
school with you everyday, so you will need
to stay close to a teacher when you are at
recess or in line to go into school." said
Edie's mom.
"If the girls start to pick on you, tell
them, "I'd really like to be your friend Are
you brave enough to do that?" Edie's mother
asked. "The Lord asks us to be kind to our
enemies, let's see what happens, okay?
The tiny
girl perked up, and with a smile, looked at
her mother and said, "Yes, Mom, I'll try."
The next
morning, and everyday before Edie left for
school, she and her mom prayed for her to be
safe and brave, and for the girls to be open
to God's love. Everyday, the girls shoved
into line behind Edie and called her names
and tried to get in a poke or two.
Each
time, Edie looked up at them and said, "I'd
really like to be your friend." She did have
to look up at them since they were so much
taller than she was.
The
teachers kept an eye on the proceedings, but
did not need to interfere as the girls were
not hurting her.
After
about two weeks, Edie came home looking so
discouraged. She told her mother that she
didn't think it was working. After they
talked about it some more and prayed, she
decided to keep trying and continued to
faithfully tell them, "I'd really like to be
your friend."
One day
the following week, Edie ran home as fast as
she could and ran into the house shouting,
"Mom, Mom, guess what happened today? Just
like I always did, I said I'd really like to
be your friend, and one of the girls said,
"Okay, Edie, we give up, we'll be your
friend."
Edie and
her mom thanked the Lord for His
faithfulness.
A short
time later, as the girls were trying to
become friends, Edie asked the teacher if
she could sit at a table with these girls in
the classroom. She had noticed that they
were disruptive because they didn't
understand the lessons. Edie became their
tutor.
Toward
the end of the school year, when Edie's
parents went to school for a parent teacher
conference, the teacher told them, "Because
of Edie's kindness, those girl's have
completely turned around and are productive
members of the class." She felt she had
witnessed a miracle. And so did Edie's mom
and dad.
How many
people go through life never experiencing
kindness? They don't see it in strangers,
and some don't even find it in their own
families.
Without
experiencing kindness, it becomes impossible
to express kindness toward others. The
result of this tragic lack is seen
everywhere.
What a
different society this would be if everyone
who has received kindness would be kind to
others, especially the unlovely。